A Bicycle Theology
Last time I wrote about why God allows bad things to happen to good people, and a question I asked was, How much control do you want God to have over your life so you don't suffer?
So, let me ask this question this time: Did you have a bicycle when you were a kid? And did you fall off the bicycle and get hurt? Maybe a skinned elbow or a skinned knee, or possibly a broken arm? Anyone who rides a bicycle for long will probably fall off it and get hurt.
Then did you give your children a bicycle? You did? Even knowing that they will very probably fall and get hurt, you gave them a bicycle anyway? What kind of cruel parent are you, anyway?
Yes, I gave my daughters bicycles. I remember teaching them to ride. We had a big front yard, and I would hold the bike (I didn't use training wheels for them) and run alongside the bicycle, holding it up and allowing them to find their balance. After a few attempts, I would run alongside and would let go without my girls knowing I let go. Finally they would be riding on their own, even though they might fall in the beginning. At least they would fall on the soft grass of our yard.
But then the time came when my first daughter took her bicycle into the street, and she rode down the hill in front of our house, turned the corner, and pedaled out of my sight. My heart froze in my chest right then, because I was no longer in control. I could not call out to her, Watch out for cars at intersections, or Slow down, you are going too fast!
When she was out of my sight, I could not protect her, could not keep her from getting hurt. There was the very real feeling that if I kept her only in our yard she would be safe from harm, but then, she would not be able to explore her world and broaden her horizons. She would never develop into the full human being I dreamed she would be.
God could keep us from hurt and from all suffering, but it would mean that we would not be allowed to develop into full human beings. While I dreaded the time my daughters would fall from their bikes and both of them did and hurt themselves, I knew that their suffering would be temporary and they would continue to ride.
Today, both of them ride long distances and explore new places on their bicycles, risking the dangers of someone running a stop sign or someone swerving and hitting them. They know those dangers are there, but they are wailing to risk that possible suffering for the joy of riding and exploring.
I do not believe God causes suffering we bring most of our suffering on ourselves by bad choices, foolishness or ignorance. But I do believe that God is with us through our suffering, bringing comfort like a mother who kisses a boo boo on her child. There is nothing very healing about the kiss, but there is great comfort in the caring.
I believe God suffers with us when we suffer, but to keep us from all pain would be to hinder us, cripple us like the parents I mentioned last time who would keep a child in a room away from most toys and all people. That would cripple the development of the child.
The Apostle Paul, in Romans 5: 3 and 4 says, Suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope. I will tell you now that there are types of suffering that do not make sense to me, but those who endure will usually tell you that they are stronger for it.
So, ride your bicycle as you live your life. Suffering will come, but it shapes us into strong men and women through the grace of God.
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